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This is a message for all the LGBT young people out there.

Whether you have just come out, thinking of coming out, you’re homeless, you’re
struggling with drugs or alcohol, or coming to terms with who you are.

This is for you.

I know. You’ve been called some pretty hurtful things.

Fag. Dyke. Queer. Poof. Tranny. They’re the ones I can say without offending my
mum…

You feel down. You feel isolated. You feel alone. You feel separated from those
closest to you.

And all you want to do is fit in. To be accepted. To be part of the group.

You have internalized those negative messages you received and the poor behavior
towards you – from your parents, grandparents, siblings, schoolmates, teachers,
strangers even.

And now you feel shame, rejection, fear, guilt. You are unable to accept
yourself.

That’s the last thing you expected when you came out.

There are a few things I want to say to you

There’s nothing wrong with you.

You are good enough.

You are perfect as you are and you don’t need to change for anyone.

Be true to yourself and follow your heart.

Give people space and the time to process who they thought you would be. They
have expectations of you and who you will be in the future. You’ve had time to
process who you are. Now, give those you have come out to space and time to
process too. In the meantime stay strong.

You are never alone. There are many people out there, walking past you day after
day, that would love to help you. Many don’t know how to help you. Get clear in
your mind what would really help you and then ask for what you want. Speak your
truth.

Who people think you are, isn’t who you really are. You are so much more than
you even know.

Look for the beauty in the little things. The warmth of a smile from a stranger.
The sun shining overhead. The sound of music in the distance. These are
reminders that you are alive and experiencing life. Your experience of life can
change in a heartbeat.

Hope. Hope opens your heart to miracles. Expect miracles. Always. When you
expect miracles, anything is possible. Your thoughts create your reality. If you
want to change your reality, change your thoughts. Keep them positive. Keep them
happy. What you believe, you become. Believe you can improve your life – and you
will.

It’s not going to be alright. It is going to be much more than alright. You have
this my friend.

Much love to you x

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