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@dukeGR4 to Dating, Relationship Advice, PersonalsEnglish • 21 hours ago


WHY IS IT EASIER FOR GIRLS TO DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR LEAGUE COMPARED TO GUYS?

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WHY IS IT EASIER FOR GIRLS TO DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR LEAGUE COMPARED TO GUYS?

@dukeGR4 to Dating, Relationship Advice, PersonalsEnglish • 21 hours ago
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   @Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world
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   1•21 hours ago
   
   Because it’s easy to get sexually abused and assaulted. See: the entire me
   too movement.
   
   
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     @dukeGR4OP
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     1•21 hours ago
     
     wat
     
     
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       @Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world
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       1•21 hours ago
       
       What ever you perceive as women ‘dating outside of their league’ is often
       times just women being exploited by men who are either older, in a
       position of power, or have money.
       
       These women aren’t ‘dating outside their league’. They’re just being used
       as goods or a piece of meat. ‘Dating’ implies mutual romantic interest,
       not one sided infatuation reciprocated by objectification.
       
       It’s not easier for women to date. It’s just easier to get sexually
       assaulted or taken advantage of.
       
       
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         @dukeGR4OP
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         1•21 hours ago
         
         and assuming there’s mutual romantic interest, and presumably there’s
         mutual sexual consent, how is it really sexual assault or being taken
         advantage of tho. Am i missing something?
         
         
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           @cendawanita
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           2•21 hours ago
           
           The power differential not explicitly mentioned in her comment but
           that which forms the basis of her example.
           
           If a boss makes you work overtime, you did say yes, right? Is like
           tht
           
           
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             0•20 hours ago
             
             well, that’s no longer power differential that’s called
             manipulation. i think this would be relevant if the guy (in this
             context) is using his superior wealth/looks etc to coerce the girl
             into having sex with him.
             
             assuming if there’s sexual consent, and both agree to have sex,
             would it still be sexual assault or “being taken advantage of” tho.
             or are we to assume that by default, a woman is to be taken
             advantage of unless proven otherwsie? this line of thinking is
             somewhat misogynistic
             
             
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               2•20 hours ago
               
               Can be if we can’t assume anything else. So now that the terms
               have been clarified, the thing is: what’s the league here? Only
               physical attractiveness? Could it also be your own observer bias?
               Do you find in your life, just that much more plain-looking girls
               with hot men? I find otherwise, but it could be you’re just more
               noticing the dudes because they’re aspirational goals and girls
               as no more than a benchmark met that’s proving to your mind why
               these men are aspirational goals.
               
               
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                 Yes physical attractiveness with no other attributes being
                 considered. based on society’s general beauty standard
                 (subjective).
                 
                 the reason why i’m asking this is because - generally
                 individuals date with others that are similarly attractive (my
                 subjective opinion based on what i’ve personally experienced
                 and seen around me). However, there exists a small pool whereby
                 they date other individuals that do not have the same physical
                 attractiveness. Within this pool, i’ve observed more less
                 attractive women dating more attractive men than less
                 attractive men dating more attractive women.
                 
                 i’ve been talking to a few of my girl friends during catchups,
                 surprised to find that all of them are like very stonks in
                 their romantic life, and they told me it’s generally quite easy
                 to date if they’re not picky. they’re average to above-average
                 looking FYI. and it made me wonder whether this stonkness can
                 be extended to women that are below average in terms of look.
                 and from what i’ve observed the answer is yes. just wanted to
                 gauge more opinion lol.
                 
                 
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