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TAKING YOUR THOUGHTS TO COURT


TAKING YOUR THOUGHTS TO COURT

17 MARCH 2023

Between imminent work deadlines, personal obligations, and a nationwide rise in
the cost of living, it’s no surprise that you may be feeling stressed or
overwhelmed right now. However, with Stress Awareness Month taking place
throughout April, we wanted to give you the power to navigate periods of stress
in a positive, solution-focused way.

As a major cause of long-term absence from work, stress can take a huge toll on
your mental and physical wellbeing. In fact, during 2021-2022, 36.8 million
working days were lost to work-related stress, anxiety, or depression across the
UK.  

With such staggering figures highlighting the need for intervention and adequate
stress management in the workplace, many of us might assume that business
leaders are doing all they can to tackle stress amongst their staff. The reality
is that only 50% of UK employees believe their organisation is effective at
managing work-related stress.

In order to tackle the stress we experience both in and out of the workplace,
it’s important that we’re able to recognise the various signs of stress. While
this will vary from one individual to the next, the general signs of stress are
categorised as:

 * Panic attacks or breathing difficulties
 * Depression
 * Lack of concentration
 * Fatigue
 * Anger and irritability
 * Worry, tension, and anxiety
 * Headaches and muscle tension
 * Racing, negative, or intrusive thoughts
 * A sense of hopelessness
 * Social withdrawal
 * Insomnia
 * Loss of libido
 * Stomach issues such as indigestion, constipation, or diarrhoea
 * Sweating or shivering
 * Feeling sick or dizzy

Once we have identified the symptoms we’re experiencing as stress, we can take
steps to overcome these periods of overwhelm in a safe and healthy way – such as
with the help of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

What is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a mode of talk-based therapy that can
help you manage feelings of stress, anxiety, and depression by reframing your
thoughts and changing your behaviours.

CBT works by enabling you to compartmentalise your problems (and the negative
thought patterns associated with them) in order to break free from these cycles,
improve your state of mind, and build better personal resilience.
While other talk therapies tend to focus on working through issues you may have
experienced in the past, CBT deals with how we feel in the moment and how our
current state of mind impacts how we think and behave. It is a practical,
actionable form of therapy that can be applied on a daily basis to change
unhelpful thoughts and behaviours.

How can CBT help me manage stress?
Of the many branches associated with CBT, there’s one technique that is
particularly effective for managing stress and our response to it. This
exercise, known as Taking Your Thoughts to Court, helps you address the types of
cognitive distortions that lead to negative thoughts, actions, and impairment
from living our best lives. Some examples of cognitive distortions include:
 * Catastrophic thinking – believing and expecting the worst will happen in any
   given situation
 * Discounting the positives – not acknowledging or enjoying positive moments in
   life
 * Mental filtering – viewing yourself or your life through a consistently
   negative lens
 * Jumping to conclusions – basing your decisions on what you think to be true,
   rather than what you know to be true
 * Personalisation – blaming yourself for things that are outside of your
   control
 * Polarised thinking – experiencing a lack of balance in your thinking: you
   believe things are either wonderful or terrible, and there’s no in between 

In order to channel out these cognitive distortions and negative thought
patterns, we can calm our minds by implementing the technique of taking our
thoughts to court.

But, how do we do it?

The act of taking your thoughts to court uses the underlying principles of CBT
(what do you believe and why do you believe it?) to challenge negative thinking
and mitigate the unhelpful and often destructive behaviours that come with it.
This technique encourages you to examine the evidence for and against a negative
or stressful thought – enabling you to take a step back from your thinking,
break unproductive thought patterns, and ultimately generate a more balanced and
considered alternative to those negative thoughts.

Not only will this help you to better communicate your thoughts and feelings by
achieving a sense of clarity, but it will also enable you to set healthy
boundaries at home and at work to avoid becoming trapped in the same thought
cycles in the future.

Let’s look at a real-life example of taking your thoughts to court:
 
Your boss emails you to request a 1-2-1 meeting, providing no further
explanation

This triggers negative feelings of fear, uncertainty, stress, and worry

These thoughts cause you to experience cognitive distortions: What if I lose my
job? What if I can’t provide for my family? What if my partner leaves me? What
if I become homeless?

At this point, instead of letting our thoughts run away with us, we need to
identify the one single thought that is driving this response. This is also
known as the hot thought

In this situation, the hot thought might be: I’ve done something wrong and I’m
going to get in trouble

Now, look at the factual evidence for and against this thought. An example of
evidence that supports this thought might be that you’ve been late to work a few
times recently, while evidence against this thought might be that you made your
manager aware that you will be late ahead of time, and they told you not to
worry

Next, consider the notion that you may not know all the facts. Your manager
could be planning on talking to you about something completely unrelated – or
even something positive! The truth that you have constructed in your mind is not
necessarily the truth of the situation

Remind yourself that you are catastrophising the situation and causing yourself
more stress than is necessary. Having this sense of self-awareness is a great
way to step back from your negative thinking and assess the situation with a
greater level of clarity and calmness

We hope this technique helps you to challenge negative thoughts as soon as they
arise, while implementing a healthier, more logical way of rationalising your
feelings around a stressful situation. By practising this technique regularly,
you should find that you experience cognitive distortions far less frequently
and instead develop practical coping skills for whatever life throws at you.

Further support
If your employer offers Vivup’s Employee Assistance Programme, there are lots of
useful resources around managing stress and anxiety to be explored. Plus, you
can also access a 24-hour telephone helpline for responsive, confidential, and
totally independent advice should you or a colleague need mental health support.

Sources
Stress in the Workplace | Factsheets | CIPD
Stress: its surprising implications for health (medicalnewstoday.com)
Signs and symptoms of stress - Mind
Overview - Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Kindness Challenge - Mental Health UK (mentalhealth-uk.org)
Cognitive Distortions Explained With 10 Examples | UPMC HealthBeat



 



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