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OUR RELATIONSHIP SPECIALISTS HAVE HELPED HUNDREDS OF COUPLES RESOLVE THE ISSUES
BETWEEN THEM IN A CALM, AMICABLE WAY. WE PROVIDE UNDERSTANDING, SUPPORT, ADVICE
AND GUIDANCE TO ENABLE YOU TO GET YOUR RELATIONSHIP BACK ON TRACK, UNLESS YOU
EXPLICITLY TELL US YOU WOULD LIKE HELP TO SEPARATE

OUR TEAM OF HIGHLY EXPERIENCED RELATIONSHIP THERAPISTS ARE USED TO DEALING WITH
ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP AND ALL KINDS OF PROBLEMS - SO WE ARE READY TO HELP
YOU.



RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE ONE OF THE MOST FULFILLING AND PLEASURABLE AREAS IN OUR
LIFE. OUR TENDENCY TO DEVELOP INTIMATE AND INTENSE RELATIONSHIPS CAN BRING GREAT
HAPPINESS. HOWEVER, OCCASIONALLY OUR RELATIONSHIPS CAN BECOME FULL OF TENSION,
RESENTMENT, HURT AND CONFLICT CAUSING PAIN AND UPSET TO ONE OR BOTH PARTIES.
DIFFICULTIES IN RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONE OF THE MOST COMMON CAUSES OF UNHAPPINESS
AND OFTEN ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS THAT BRING PEOPLE TO THERAPY.



IN GENERAL, POOR COMMUNICATION IS THE MAIN FACTOR THAT CAUSES ISSUES IN
RELATIONSHIPS. MANY OF THE INDIVIDUALS WE SEE CLAIM THEY STRUGGLE WITH A FEELING
OF NOT BEING LISTENED TO, OR THAT THEIR PARTNER DOESN'T TAKE TIME TO UNDERSTAND
WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. IT’S ALSO VERY COMMON FOR THE SAME TOPICS TO PROVOKE
ARGUMENTS AND BLAME WITHOUT A SOLUTION BEING FOUND SO COUPLES FIND THEMSELVES
GOING ROUND AND ROUND IN CIRCLES.



THERE CAN BE A LOT OF SADNESS, HURT, ANGER AND RESENTMENT BENEATH THE SURFACE OF
RELATIONSHIP DIFFICULTIES. IT TAKES COURAGE TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER AND A
COMMITMENT TO UNDERSTAND THEIR POINT OF VIEW, LET ALONE FIND THE WORDS TO SAY
WHAT’S IMPORTANT FROM YOUR OWN POINT OF VIEW. THROUGH GENTLE QUESTIONING OUR
COUNSELLORS WILL HELP YOU EXPLORE THE UNDERLYING ISSUES IN ORDER FOR YOU TO BOTH
ACHIEVE A NEW LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING.



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THE ISSUES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY AS ONE OF YOU MIGHT BE RESISTANT TO
ATTENDING COUNSELLING. HOWEVER, REST ASSURED; RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING IS NOT
ABOUT WHO IS RIGHT OR WRONG, IT'S ABOUT OPEN DISCUSSION AND HELPING YOU BOTH
TRYING TO ACHIEVE THE OUTCOME YOU WANT.



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MARRIED OR SINGLE; RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING OFFERS A SAFE AND CONFIDENTIAL
SETTING IN WHICH TO EXPLORE YOUR DIFFICULTIES AND TO HELP FIND MORE PRODUCTIVE
AND FULFILLING WAYS OF RELATING TO EACH OTHER.



COMMON RELATIONSHIP ISSUES: - INFIDELITY AND AFFAIRS. 'STUCK' RELATIONSHIPS.
INTIMACY PROBLEMS. JEALOUSY AND SUSPICION. STALE RELATIONSHIPS. BREAKS UP'S AND
DIVORCE.



THE PURPOSE OF COUPLES THERAPY IS TO HELP YOU STAY TOGETHER AS A COUPLE UNLESS
YOU TELL US THAT YOU WISH TO SEPARATE, IN WHICH CASE, RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING
SURREY CAN HELP YOU TO DO SO MUCH MORE AMICABLY AND WITH A GREATER UNDERSTANDING
OF WHY THE RELATIONSHIP BROKE DOWN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

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Experienced Qualified Professional

WE HAVE HELPED HUNDREDS OF COUPLES RESOLVE THEIR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES

 * We have successfully enabled hundreds of couples to achieve their goals
 * Our highly experienced relationship therapists open up will help to get you
   talking
   
 * Positive Reviews Proven Success Rate.

OUR TEAM OF RELATIONSIP COUNSELLING EXPERTS ARE PROFESSIONALLY TRAINED IN
HELPING COUPLES WORK THROUGH THEIR RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS

 * BSC (hons) Psychology
   
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   Counselling Skills BACP British Association of Counselling Psychotherapy
   PGDip Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CONFIDENTIAL & SUPPORTIVE COUNSELLING

 * We will help you understand what is going on in your relationship, no matter
   what has happened
 * Feel relaxed in quiet, comfortable environment
 * Convenient & flexible appointments to suit you.
 * practices all across Surrey.

 * 
 * 

 * Dear Relationship Counselling Surrey
   
   I can’t thank you enough for all your help during our sessions.  You have
   given me the tools and skills I need to move forward in a positive way.  I
   particularly liked the way you had saved notes from my first contact for
   counselling so that at the end we could re-cap and ensure all my issues had
   been worked through.
   
   What was really interesting is the way you helped me to work through my
   problems rather than just suggesting solutions to me. I enjoyed my “eureka”
   moments where suddenly a penny would drop and I would see something from a
   completely different perspective.
   
   Thanking you so much,
   
   
   
   Neana

 * “Kate Stewart helped us at a time when we were approaching rock bottom in our
   relationship.   We both found her to be friendly, very approachable and
   reassuring.
   
   She helped us to communicate at a much deeper level and to understand the
   other’s point of view.  We would thoroughly recommend Kate to any couple
   going through relationship difficulties”
   
   
   
   EP & WP

 *  
   
   “Katrina is amazing! With her help my husband and I are back ‘on track’.
   Katrina reassured us that both of our feelings count and because of this
   Katrian gained our trust instantly. She quickly helped us to identify what
   could be causing our issues and how we can use simple techniques and
   solutions to resolve/manage/accept them.
   
   We are still using those tips now and we still remind each other when we need
   to of the wonderful guidance Katrina gave so that we can continue to benefit
   from it whenever we need to”
   
   
   
   Jacqueline B

 * “I have recently been helped by Helen Lamming and through my sessions I can
   honestly say I have felt improvement. She helped create a open and friendly
   platform in which we could discuss the relevant topics that helped ease my
   overall stress and anxiety. I would recommend Helen very highly and I would
   not hesitate to book further sessions if I felt the need. I would also
   recommend the online sessions and found them far less stressful that adding
   extra travel to my day.
   
   
   
   Nik Edwards

 * “Andy gave us what we needed and at a pace we could manage. He  joined with
   us in our exploration so the Julie-and- I duo became a trio with And; working
   together to resolve our issues.
   
   After each session we felt empowered to take away what we had discussed so
   that we may consider this in greater depth in our own time. He was never the
   passive wall or mirror (which would have irritated and blocked our learning)
   but an active participant in our striving to move forward .
   
   
   
   Clive and Julie


 * TRISH MAYNE
   
   “Thank you for a really good session Trish. We were feeling really stuck for
   a time. You  listened and helped pull us back into a place where we could
   think and makes things feel better. We are very glad we chose to turn to you
   for guidance. ”
   
   
   
   Anonymous


 * ELAINE BROWN
   
   “Thank you so much for everything you have done to help the situation with
   our marriage.  We have learnt a lot but still have a way to go but you have
   helped more than we can of expected”
   
   
   
   J & P

 * “We didn’t think we would be sat here together having enjoyed a family
   Christmas, when this time last year we felt we were at the end. Thank You for
   helping us find a way forward that suited us, and for your knowledge and
   understanding. We now are looking forward rather than dreading the future”
   
   
   
   Anonymous

 * “Although my wife was not comfortable discussing our marital problems with a
   counsellor herself, Trish really helped me understand how to approach the
   issues, and gave us a good foundation/plan to build upon.
   
   They say the first step is to talk about the problems, and talking with Trish
   really helped!. Was the first time (aged 48) I have had any kind of
   counselling, which filled me with fear, but within a couple of minutes of the
   Zoom meeting Trish put my mind at rest.”
   
   
   
   Anonymous

 * “Just to say Thank you for your help, it has been invaluable and it was
   wonderful confiding in someone so warm and non-judgemental.  The sessions
   were priceless in how they improved our communication and overall
   relationship.  The tools we’ve learnt will be invaluable taking froward”
   
   
   
   H & S

 *  
   
   “We found Sian to be such a huge help in our quest for improving our
   communication skills. Sian will teach you how to think about your behaviour
   and what it’s linked to so you learn to understand yourself and your partner
   a whole lot better. This is an invaluable technique,. She is also warm & fun
   which really helps!:)”
   
   
   
   Scott and Sue

 * “We weren’t sure what to expect, or even if it would help. Best money we ever
   spent!”
   
   Trish helped us, as a couple and as individuals, and we have learnt some
   valuable tools we will continue to use. And we are happy to say, we now feel
   the strongest we ever have”
   
   
   
   Anon – West Malling

 * “We saw Sian for some marriage counselling online and found that she has an
   amazing ability to explain back to you EXACTLY how you are feeling, both me
   and my husband just couldn’t believe it! It was like she had experienced
   every single feeling we had at some point so she could really relate to it.
   At no point did she judge either of us such she just helped understand each
   other’s perspectives and got us actually communicating properly again! Thank
   you!
   
   
   
   Anonymous

 * “We felt having a space to talk in that was safe and supportive was really
   helpful. The sessions were very well managed and structured by Jolanta  and
   there was an understanding and empathy with our situation which felt
   comforting.  We were each allowed a decent time to talk and reflect”
   
   “Thank you Jolanta – you were very kind and understanding and we really
   appreciated the lack of judgement and desire to help us with your reflections
   and ideas”
   
   
   
   Anonymous

 * “Relationship counselling with Judy was a positive experience for both of us.
   The initial questionnaire was a good way to get us to think deeply and try to
   identify issues we had and wanted to address”
   
   “Judy seemed to understand where each of us was coming from and tried to get
   us to see the other person’s point of view”
   
   
   
   Mr & Mrs Hakki

 * “The Irish” (ha ha ha!) cannot thank you enough for all you have done for us
   Stephanie. It’s been a steep hill but we finally got there, we will never
   forget what you have done for us and all being well we won’t be back!! :))”
   
   
   
   Rosalyn and Patrick
   Haslemere

 * After only 2 appointments with things started to get better and then
   continued to grow each session after that. With our new communication skills
   and understanding of each other I feel like we are back in love again! I
   would tell anyone not to be scared or embarrassed and it is worth every
   penny”
   
   
   
   Anonymous
   Woking

 * “My wife point blank refused to seek help for our problems with marriage
   counselling because she saw this as a failure she didn’t want to admit to.
   Neither of us wanted to separate but we wanted to feel happy again. When I
   called Relationship Counselling Surrey to ask her advice they were so
   helpful!
   
   Although my wife was still hesitant to attend  it’s helped us greatly. We
   didn’t even realised how stale things were and  how mundane our lives had
   become.  inspired us with new vigour and understanding and we are both
   happier now and actually looking forward to our retirement together rather
   than dreading it”
   
   
   
   Mr and Mrs Cobhurn – Farnham

 * “It’s been good and it’s been bad………………… but knowing what we know now …. we
   should have done it years ago! Thank you thank you thank you!”
   
   
   
   Elsa and Mark – one very happy couple!

 * “Highly recommend – I contacted Relationship Counselling Surrey for an
   appoinment w because I was concerned that my reaction to the small irritating
   things my partner was doing was getting out of hand. I was anxious, angry and
   upset on a regular basis. I tried to blame him for a while but I started to
   realise it was me and not him. I saw Sophie Hill for a few months, once a
   week, and began to understand why I was reacting the way I was.
   
   This understanding was half the battle, and was incredibly revealing. I
   learned not to let my hurt feelings turn to anger and frustration, and deal
   with them in a different way. I feel like my old self again now, I’m more in
   control of my emotions, and much happier in my relationship. Sophie was
   sympathetic, caring, open and I think genuinely happy for me when I started
   to feel better”
   
   
   
   Mrs T Albany

 * “As you know Michelle I have tried very hard to get over my wife’s affair.
   Unfortunately I haven’t been unable to forgive and forget and now know I
   never will. Although the whole experience has hurt like hell, I couldn’t have
   done it without you. You helped me through it by giving me time, patience and
   a different perspective. I know more about myself and relationships than I
   ever did before and I’m hoping one day I will see some good in what’s
   happened. Hopefully this will help me in my next relationship”
   
   
   
   Steve M
   Rochester

 * “Having  Rose help us talk through our problems helped us both see each
   others point of view and see things more clearly. Our marriage is much
   stronger now that it has been for years – thank you so much”
   
   
   
   Byron & Claire – Woking

 * “We knew we needed to separate but wanted to do so amicably for the sake of
   our two children. Andrew made this possible by offering us the support
   through a very difficult time”
   
   
   
   Tracey B & Tom

 * “Thank you for putting our marriage back on track!”
   
   
   
   Mr & Mrs Donahu

 * “When my wife suggested that we should see a relationship counsellor but I
   thought it was a stupid idea and was very sceptical and cynical!. However,
   Allie made us both feel very relaxed from the outset and she never took sides
   in any of our conversations. Unfortunately we were not able to save our
   relationship but Allie helped us through the difficult process and made the
   separation so such much easier. I would recommend her to anyone who is having
   problems”
   
   
   
   Anonymous

 * “Although my partner was reluctant to go to couples therapy our therapist put
   us both at ease straight away. I was surprised how he opened up and I was
   able to see things from his perspective for the first time. I know that he
   understands me more now and we are closer than ever”
   
   
   
   Hayley and John

 * “I didn’t think there was any hope for our relationship as all we did was
   argue and shout at each other. We went to see Sian at relationship
   counselling Guildford and she was so patient and understanding and always saw
   things from both points of view. We are now at a stage where we can at least
   communicate without getting angry. We are still working on our relationship
   but now feel at least there is light at the end of the tunnel”
   
   
   
   Paul & Sue
   Folkestone, Surrey





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EXPERIENCED

 * Successfully enabled hundreds of couples to relate more effectively and
   achieve their goals
 * Skilled in helping couples open up and communicate effectively
 * 97% of customers rebook after their first session.

QUALIFIED

 * BSC (hons) Psychology (accredited by the British Psychological Society)
 * BACP - British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy
 * PGCert Psychotherapy

PROFESSIONAL

 * We will help you understand what is going on in your relationship, no matter
   what has happened or what is going on.
 * Feel relaxed in quiet, comfortable environment
 * Convenient & flexible appointments to suit you.
 * Ideally located across the whole of surrey.

CONVENIENT LOCATIONS

 * We have multiple marriage counselling practices Surrey conveniently located
   to make our relationship counselling services accessible throughout the
   county.

 
 * Guildford
 * Bexley
 * Caterham
 * Bromley
 * Canterbury
 * Dartford
 * Farnham
 * Herne Bay
 * Surbiton
 * Rochester
 * Redhill
 * Tonbridge
 * Woking


REVIEWS

 * Dear Relationship Counselling Surrey I can't thank you enough for all your
   help during our sessions.  You have given me the tools and skills I need to
   move forward in a positive way.  I particularly liked the way you had saved
   notes from my first contact for counselling so that at the end we could
   re-cap and ensure all my issues had been worked through. What was really
   interesting is the way you helped me to work through my problems rather than
   just suggesting solutions to me. I enjoyed my "eureka" moments where suddenly
   a penny would drop and I would see something from a completely different
   perspective. Thanking you so much,
   
   Neana

 * "Kate Stewart helped us at a time when we were approaching rock bottom in our
   relationship.   We both found her to be friendly, very approachable and
   reassuring. She helped us to communicate at a much deeper level and to
   understand the other's point of view.  We would thoroughly recommend Kate to
   any couple going through relationship difficulties"
   
   EP & WP

 *   "Katrina is amazing! With her help my husband and I are back ‘on track’.
   Katrina reassured us that both of our feelings count and because of this
   Katrian gained our trust instantly. She quickly helped us to identify what
   could be causing our issues and how we can use simple techniques and
   solutions to resolve/manage/accept them. We are still using those tips now
   and we still remind each other when we need to of the wonderful guidance
   Katrina gave so that we can continue to benefit from it whenever we need to"
   
   Jacqueline B

 * "I have recently been helped by Helen Lamming and through my sessions I can
   honestly say I have felt improvement. She helped create a open and friendly
   platform in which we could discuss the relevant topics that helped ease my
   overall stress and anxiety. I would recommend Helen very highly and I would
   not hesitate to book further sessions if I felt the need. I would also
   recommend the online sessions and found them far less stressful that adding
   extra travel to my day.
   
   Nik Edwards

 * "Andy gave us what we needed and at a pace we could manage. He  joined with
   us in our exploration so the Julie-and- I duo became a trio with And; working
   together to resolve our issues. After each session we felt empowered to take
   away what we had discussed so that we may consider this in greater depth in
   our own time. He was never the passive wall or mirror (which would have
   irritated and blocked our learning) but an active participant in our striving
   to move forward .
   
   Clive and Julie


 * TRISH MAYNE
   
   "Thank you for a really good session Trish. We were feeling really stuck for
   a time. You  listened and helped pull us back into a place where we could
   think and makes things feel better. We are very glad we chose to turn to you
   for guidance. "
   
   
   
   Anonymous


 * ELAINE BROWN
   
   "Thank you so much for everything you have done to help the situation with
   our marriage.  We have learnt a lot but still have a way to go but you have
   helped more than we can of expected"
   
   
   
   J & P

 * "We didn’t think we would be sat here together having enjoyed a family
   Christmas, when this time last year we felt we were at the end. Thank You for
   helping us find a way forward that suited us, and for your knowledge and
   understanding. We now are looking forward rather than dreading the future"
   
   Anonymous


 * 
   
   "Although my wife was not comfortable discussing our marital problems with a
   counsellor herself, Trish really helped me understand how to approach the
   issues, and gave us a good foundation/plan to build upon. They say the first
   step is to talk about the problems, and talking with Trish really helped!.
   Was the first time (aged 48) I have had any kind of counselling, which filled
   me with fear, but within a couple of minutes of the Zoom meeting Trish put my
   mind at rest."
   
   
   
   Anonymous


 * 
   
   "Just to say Thank you for your help, it has been invaluable and it was
   wonderful confiding in someone so warm and non-judgemental.  The sessions
   were priceless in how they improved our communication and overall
   relationship.  The tools we've learnt will be invaluable taking froward"
   
   
   
   H & S

 *   "We found Sian to be such a huge help in our quest for improving our
   communication skills. Sian will teach you how to think about your behaviour
   and what it's linked to so you learn to understand yourself and your partner
   a whole lot better. This is an invaluable technique,. She is also warm & fun
   which really helps!:)"
   
   Scott and Sue


 * 
   
   "We weren't sure what to expect, or even if it would help. Best money we ever
   spent!" Trish helped us, as a couple and as individuals, and we have learnt
   some valuable tools we will continue to use. And we are happy to say, we now
   feel the strongest we ever have"
   
   
   
   Anon – West Malling


 * 
   
   "We saw Sian for some marriage counselling online and found that she has an
   amazing ability to explain back to you EXACTLY how you are feeling, both me
   and my husband just couldn't believe it! It was like she had experienced
   every single feeling we had at some point so she could really relate to it.
   At no point did she judge either of us such she just helped understand each
   other's perspectives and got us actually communicating properly again! Thank
   you!
   
   
   
   Anonymous


 * 
   
   "We felt having a space to talk in that was safe and supportive was really
   helpful. The sessions were very well managed and structured by Jolanta  and
   there was an understanding and empathy with our situation which felt
   comforting.  We were each allowed a decent time to talk and reflect" "Thank
   you Jolanta – you were very kind and understanding and we really appreciated
   the lack of judgement and desire to help us with your reflections and ideas"
   
   
   
   Anonymous


 * 
   
   "Relationship counselling with Judy was a positive experience for both of us.
   The initial questionnaire was a good way to get us to think deeply and try to
   identify issues we had and wanted to address" "Judy seemed to understand
   where each of us was coming from and tried to get us to see the other
   person's point of view"
   
   
   
   Mr & Mrs Hakki


 * 
   
   "The Irish" (ha ha ha!) cannot thank you enough for all you have done for us
   Stephanie. It's been a steep hill but we finally got there, we will never
   forget what you have done for us and all being well we won't be back!! :))"
   
   
   
   Rosalyn and Patrick
   Haslemere

 * After only 2 appointments with things started to get better and then
   continued to grow each session after that. With our new communication skills
   and understanding of each other I feel like we are back in love again! I
   would tell anyone not to be scared or embarrassed and it is worth every
   penny"
   
   Anonymous
   Woking


 * 
   
   "My wife point blank refused to seek help for our problems with marriage
   counselling because she saw this as a failure she didn't want to admit to.
   Neither of us wanted to separate but we wanted to feel happy again. When I
   called Relationship Counselling Surrey to ask her advice they were so
   helpful! Although my wife was still hesitant to attend  it's helped us
   greatly. We didn't even realised how stale things were and  how mundane our
   lives had become.  inspired us with new vigour and understanding and we are
   both happier now and actually looking forward to our retirement together
   rather than dreading it"
   
   
   
   Mr and Mrs Cobhurn – Farnham


 * 
   
   "It's been good and it's been bad..................... but knowing what we
   know now .... we should have done it years ago! Thank you thank you thank
   you!"
   
   
   
   Elsa and Mark – one very happy couple!


 * 
   
   "Highly recommend - I contacted Relationship Counselling Surrey for an
   appoinment w because I was concerned that my reaction to the small irritating
   things my partner was doing was getting out of hand. I was anxious, angry and
   upset on a regular basis. I tried to blame him for a while but I started to
   realise it was me and not him. I saw Sophie Hill for a few months, once a
   week, and began to understand why I was reacting the way I was. This
   understanding was half the battle, and was incredibly revealing. I learned
   not to let my hurt feelings turn to anger and frustration, and deal with them
   in a different way. I feel like my old self again now, I'm more in control of
   my emotions, and much happier in my relationship. Sophie was sympathetic,
   caring, open and I think genuinely happy for me when I started to feel
   better”
   
   
   
   Mrs T Albany


 * 
   
   "As you know Michelle I have tried very hard to get over my wife's affair.
   Unfortunately I haven't been unable to forgive and forget and now know I
   never will. Although the whole experience has hurt like hell, I couldn't have
   done it without you. You helped me through it by giving me time, patience and
   a different perspective. I know more about myself and relationships than I
   ever did before and I'm hoping one day I will see some good in what's
   happened. Hopefully this will help me in my next relationship"
   
   
   
   Steve M
   Rochester


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   "Having  Rose help us talk through our problems helped us both see each
   others point of view and see things more clearly. Our marriage is much
   stronger now that it has been for years – thank you so much"
   
   
   
   Byron & Claire – Woking


 * 
   
   "We knew we needed to separate but wanted to do so amicably for the sake of
   our two children. Andrew made this possible by offering us the support
   through a very difficult time"
   
   
   
   Tracey B & Tom


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   "Thank you for putting our marriage back on track!"
   
   
   
   Mr & Mrs Donahu

 * "When my wife suggested that we should see a relationship counsellor but I
   thought it was a stupid idea and was very sceptical and cynical!. However,
   Allie made us both feel very relaxed from the outset and she never took sides
   in any of our conversations. Unfortunately we were not able to save our
   relationship but Allie helped us through the difficult process and made the
   separation so such much easier. I would recommend her to anyone who is having
   problems"
   
   Anonymous


 * 
   
   "Although my partner was reluctant to go to couples therapy our therapist put
   us both at ease straight away. I was surprised how he opened up and I was
   able to see things from his perspective for the first time. I know that he
   understands me more now and we are closer than ever"
   
   
   
   Hayley and John


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   "I didn’t think there was any hope for our relationship as all we did was
   argue and shout at each other. We went to see Sian at relationship
   counselling Guildford and she was so patient and understanding and always saw
   things from both points of view. We are now at a stage where we can at least
   communicate without getting angry. We are still working on our relationship
   but now feel at least there is light at the end of the tunnel"
   
   
   
   Paul & Sue
   Folkestone, Surrey


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