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AITA FOR HOW I REVEALED THAT I’M AUTISTIC?

Not the A-hole

I F24 have been with my bf for 2 years. We're family friends and have known each
other and the other’s family growing up.

Throughout my life I thought I’d struggled with anxiety, depression, and mild
OCD, but never quite fit the diagnostic criteria and struggled to get effective
treatment or a diagnosis. This has been pretty private my entire life- it was
rarely visible from the outside.

Shortly before my bf and I started dating, at 21, I saw a new provider who
suggested I read about how autism presents in women. I was hesitant since I had
a preconceived idea about what autism looked like, but just about everything I
read clicked and it was like a light flipped on. I felt so understood and
everything made so much sense, including my past struggles to get an effective
diagnosis/treatment.

I underwent two evaluations (one was just for a second opinion) and was
diagnosed with autism from each.

The diagnosis did not change much about my day-to-day life but understanding
autism definitely helped me learn better coping mechanisms for some of my
struggles.

My evaluations were literally right before bf and I became “official” and it
took me a while to disclose to him, but he was super understanding and read up
on autism in women. It has never been an issue in our relationship.

Recently we were at a bonfire with his extended family and I was sitting with
the women. Bf’s sister Sara is pregnant and shared fear of her baby having
autism, and the women started talking about how awful that would be- how if the
baby had autism it’d need round-the-clock lifelong care and ruin the parents
life.

I sympathized to an extent because autism is a spectrum, and some autistic
people do need round-the-clock lifelong care and raising a severely disabled
child is taxing. But most autistic kids grow up into functioning adults, so I
kindly told her that and that even if her baby had autism, everything would most
likely be alright.

She responded “Have you ever MET an autistic adult? Clearly not.” Then went on
about how even the few autistic adults who don’t need round-the-clock care can’t
hold “normal” jobs and could never support themselves.

Everyone with autism is different, but Sara and her family have always raved
about me and expressed extreme support for me and bf’s relationship. I have a
great career and very comfortably support myself.

I listened until I couldn’t anymore and then I said. “Sara, for what it’s worth,
I am autistic.” The women freaked out and said there was “no way” I’m autistic.

I went on to share that I’ve been evaluated twice, and autism is pretty widely
misunderstood.

Sara practically ran to tell on me to my bf, who just said “I know. It’s not
really a big deal.”

He is on my side but the rest of his family is saying I ruined their night and
should’ve sat them down to have a serious conversation about my diagnosis rather
than “springing it on them.” They’re extremely pissed at me for the way I went
about this.

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The_Ghost_Reborn

• 6mo ago

NTA.

Sara put her foot in her mouth and is dealing with it by going on the offensive.
They're not extremely pissed at you, there's no feelings involved, they're just
doing mean-girl tactics to try to get rid of you.

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Boeing367-80

• 6mo ago

OP embarrassed them and they fully deserved it. NTA.

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• 6mo ago

Well, using mean-girl tactics against an autistic woman/girl is pretty classic
behaviour...

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Aggressive-Bed3269

• 6mo ago

NTA -

They're just mad because they talked a whole lot of shit about how awful autism
is and would be if their child had it... and it turns out you're autistic, and
they're hellaciously embarassed.

Instead of apologizing as would have been appropriate, they ran to rat you out
to your bf, and then are now pretending to be the victims in all of this.

Frankly, it's pathetic. Also whether or not you're autistic is literally none of
their business.

You could have NEVER told them and you'd still be very much in the right.

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AdelleDeWitt

• 6mo ago

OMG, NTA. I'm autistic and I don't schedule giant meetings to announce this
information. If it comes up in conversation, it comes up in conversation. These
people are ableist as hell.

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kitkatpurr

• 6mo ago

Exactly! You don't need a meeting to share a normal part of life, as though it's
something "bad" that we're autistic!

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Mitoisreal

• 6mo ago

Nta. They could've used that as an opportunity address their ignorance and
gotten a ton of reassurance from an autistic adult who's able to have a good
life. But no, they're pissed about being wrong.

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sophlog

• 6mo ago

Lmao if you’re gonna flaunt the fact that you’re uneducated about something, you
gotta prepare to be schooled every now and then. NTA

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idiocyengineer

• 6mo ago

Lol, NTA, you’re allowed to disclose information about yourself however/wherever
you want to.

It made them uncomfortable bc they realized they were being ignorant and
offensive.

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